Being a working mom comes with its own set of challenges and hurdles. Here are some common ones or a few things I am facing right now.

Balancing Work and Family:

Juggling the demands of a career and family life can be overwhelming. Finding time for both work responsibilities and quality time with your children can be a constant struggle.

Guilt:

Many working moms feel guilty about not spending enough time with their children or not being able to attend every school event or activity. This guilt can be emotionally taxing and difficult to overcome.

Childcare:

Finding reliable and affordable childcare can be a major challenge for working moms. This includes navigating options such as daycare, nannies, or family members who can help with childcare.

Career Advancement:

Balancing career aspirations with family responsibilities can be tricky. Some working moms may feel that they have to compromise their career advancement or opportunities for the sake of their families and this is quite common here in India. As it is the mother who the baby needs the most and at the same time, the society wants mothers to be home. As they say, it’s the ideal job for mothers after giving birth.

Stress and Burnout:

Trying to meet the demands of both work and family life can lead to stress and burnout. It’s important for working moms to prioritize self-care and find ways to manage stress effectively.

Societal Expectations:

Society often places unrealistic expectations on working moms to excel both in their careers and as mothers. This pressure to “have it all” can be overwhelming and contribute to feelings of inadequacy.

Financial Pressures:

Many working moms face financial pressures, especially if they are the primary breadwinners for their families. Balancing the need to provide financially with the desire to spend time with family can be challenging.

Lack of Support:

Some working moms may feel isolated or unsupported, especially if they don’t have a strong support network of family, friends, or colleagues who understand their challenges.

I still feel that family plays an important role. Not just a supporting partner, but the whole family should be understanding of the work situation. And stop blaming the mother who re-joined or is willing to join work

Despite these hurdles, many working moms find ways to thrive in both their careers and as parents. Finding a balance that works for you, seeking support when needed, and prioritizing self-care are essential strategies for overcoming these challenges.

This blog post is part of the blog challenge ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla in collaboration with Mads’ Cookhouse.

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