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Saying goodbye to someone whom I like. (Positive note)

Saying goodbye to someone whom I like. (Positive note)

Posted on February 7, 2022March 9, 2022 by Sadvika Kylash

Goodbyes are hard for everyone no matter where you stand in life. This post would be a little of a flashback to me. I am sure we all have the not-so-successful love story, right? Well, even I had one and I still, to date like, admire and respect that person.

Now, this present day I wouldn’t say I love him but that love outgrew and turned itself into much of concern and respect to each other. I guess it is the same with him too. As we grew older, we realized, even though we couldn’t make it, it is ok to be in touch.

Ending a relationship on a bad note is the worst thing that could happen. But I guess, I got lucky with this. Having to move away on a mutual note is the biggest blessing ever. And having his call/message on my phone even after years of moving apart is bliss!

Saying goodbye to someone whom I like. (Positive note)
Saying goodbye to someone whom I like. (Positive note)

Goodbye for good:

For a breakup, there might be many reasons and even ours was no different. But I guess it takes two mature people to break upon a mutual note and not have hard feelings for each other is the rarest thing possible.

I don’t want to go into detail about my breakup story but just look at the positiveness that we still have around. For a breakup, there might be many reasons but all it takes that One reason to keep in touch and know what the other is up to.

In this social media age, it is nearly impossible to hide our lives from the world. Well, if you are a social media person like me. Looking at each other pictures on stories and posts and not feeling sad or having any other negative feelings, is where you have matured enough to enjoy the success of the other person!

But finding happiness in those things matters. You would reach a stage where you still talk, message, still laugh at the old memories.

This is what matters right? That person might not be with you, besides you as your life partner. But that is a person whom you can look up if you need anything or just wanted to talk to. (Calling that person at appropriate time matters, though)

 ‘This blog post is part of the blog challenge ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D’Silva andNoor Anand Chawla in collaboration with RRE Studios and ShowCase Events.’

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23 thoughts on “Saying goodbye to someone whom I like. (Positive note)”

  1. Kaveri Chhetri says:
    March 12, 2022 at 7:56 am

    interesting topic… so candidly n sweetly uv spoken about it. I too believe in letting go on a good note… after all we all deserve a proper closure.

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  2. Meetali Kutty says:
    March 12, 2022 at 9:23 am

    Sometimes the best thing to do is also the hardest- breaking up is always terrible especially in that moment but sometimes it is so essential. You’ve really captured that feeling

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    1. Shail Thosani says:
      March 12, 2022 at 4:11 pm

      It is difficult to talk about break ups so easily. You have written a very candid post opening up about your past and relationship and ending it with positivity. You have rightly said sometimes you can say goodbye on positive note also.

      Reply
    2. Pooja Jha says:
      March 16, 2022 at 10:55 am

      Wow! That’s such a wonderful read, I love the Positive note while drifting apart. Leaving each other’s life with Mutual consent is surely bliss.
      Lovely read. ?

      Reply
  3. Vidhya Thakkar says:
    March 12, 2022 at 10:19 am

    I am going through this situation, ending a 5 year old relationship… it’s difficult,,,

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  4. Mayuri Nidigallu says:
    March 12, 2022 at 10:32 am

    Loved your candid and refreshing take on a breakup. I always admire anyone who can do what you did. I believe in closing doors I will no longer be walking through.

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    1. Varsh says:
      March 13, 2022 at 10:23 am

      Your bold declaration of your feelings from the past and now shows how much your relationship has matured. I’m so happy that to see that a break up didn’t rob you off such a wonderful person. Stay blessed, both of you!

      Reply
  5. Sonia dogra says:
    March 12, 2022 at 5:09 pm

    Not many people can move forward without bitterness in their hearts. So it’s wonderful that you continue to be on cordial terms.

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    1. Zenobia Merchant says:
      March 13, 2022 at 6:27 am

      Positive and inspiring. Love the way you happily let go of a past relationship with warmth, I guess not just for a lover but this applies to everyone, every memory and especially lost friends.

      Reply
  6. Vasumathi says:
    March 12, 2022 at 7:35 pm

    Staying in touch with an ex speaks volumes about the health of the relationship and the respect both of you had for each other as individuals coz that does not go away just because you realise that you may no longer work together as a couple. And some of these can become your biggest cheerleaders and support because they truly like you. Not every breakup has to be bad.
    And sadly, not every breakup that was not bad results in one staying in touch.

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  7. Flavia Cutinho says:
    March 13, 2022 at 4:39 am

    I truely agree to what u have said, sometimes its just difficult to explain what an ex can be to you and you have made it easy for everyone to understand.

    Reply
  8. Jasmine says:
    March 13, 2022 at 7:22 am

    Bidding good bye is really difficult but you have put it so well on a positive note. Inspiring

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    1. Monidipa Dutta says:
      March 13, 2022 at 2:55 pm

      I’m out of words as it’s beautiful and emotional. I have been there so I can feel it.

      Reply
  9. Ritu Bindra says:
    March 13, 2022 at 8:32 am

    A very honest and candid post. Breakups need not always be about negativity. Being cordial is not easy but is possible. It depends on the individual.

    Reply
  10. Swati Mathur says:
    March 13, 2022 at 9:50 am

    I appreciate what you have written. It is difficult to be in touch if you were in relationship with that person even after you moved out. But happy to know that you managed to do that.

    Reply
  11. Madhu Bindra says:
    March 13, 2022 at 10:42 am

    People don’t usually talk about their exes or even their past relationships openly. You have shown that it is possible to break up on a positive note.

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  12. Harjeet Kaur says:
    March 13, 2022 at 11:41 am

    Well, I wish all exes had a positive ending like yours. It is said one should not burn one’s bridges. I admire the way you have shared your positive feelings as most of us tend to share everything negative abput such relationships. But times are changing and the new generation forgives and forgets and remain as friends.

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  13. Kashish Mahtani says:
    March 13, 2022 at 2:13 pm

    It’s wonderful to know you’re able to close relationships on happy notes – it take immense maturity, strength and a beautiful heart. I try doing so too, I’d hate to break things off with anyone at all on a negative low.

    Reply
  14. Smita Saksena says:
    March 13, 2022 at 2:22 pm

    Really, saying goodbye to someone can be hard but sometimes we have to do things that we never wanted to make. Lovely post.

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    1. Sindhu Vinod Narayan says:
      March 13, 2022 at 7:11 pm

      Love the honesty in coming up with this. Ending relationship on happy note is something that’s rare but glad it is doable

      Reply
  15. Jhilmil D Saha says:
    March 14, 2022 at 11:34 pm

    That was a very candid piece. Yes breaking away from relationships is a difficult task but it sis always for the good, rather than waiting for it to turn too toxic.

    Reply
  16. Neelam says:
    March 16, 2022 at 8:42 am

    There is always an end to a toxic relationships

    Reply
  17. Noor Anand Chawla says:
    May 2, 2022 at 2:02 pm

    I am friends with a couple of my exes and have completely cut out the others. I think it really depends on the nature of the relationship!

    Reply

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